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Acknowledgments
Chapter 1
Chapter 2
Chapter 3
Chapter 4
Chapter 5
Chapter 6
Chapter 7
Chapter 8
Chapter 9
Chapter 10
Chapter 11
Chapter 12
Chapter 13
Chapter 14
Chapter 15
Chapter 16
Chapter 17
Chapter 18
Chapter 19
Chapter 20
Chapter 21
Chapter 22
Chapter 23
Chapter 24
Chapter 25
Chapter 26
Chapter 27
Chapter 28
Chapter 29
Chapter 30
Chapter 31
Chapter 32
Chapter 33
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With deep appreciation, I’d like to thank all the wonderful individuals who dedicate
their lives to children with special needs.
I’d like to offer my special thanks and gratitude to the patient and devoted
caregivers at Echoing Lake Facilities, The Renouard Home, The Lucy Idol Center,
Camp Cheerful, Stepping Stones, Camp Allyn, Bobbie Fairfax School, and Roselawn
Condon School (extra thanks to Daphne Robinson).
Thank you to my friend Karen Brantley, who really understands it all!
And special thanks to my editor Caitlyn Dlouhy for her amazing skill, vision, and
that green editing pen!
To my daughter,
Wendy Michelle Draper,
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